To Walk or Stay.

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What are some qualities I like in a friend? Well, let me tell you: someone who is honest, vulnerable, real and has a little spunk. You know someone has a little pep in their step

I found these qualities in my friend Lara. For awhile she was just my online friend but even through twitter and her blog these qualities shined through. I knew if we ever had the chance to meet in real life we would hit if off. Lucky for me we did have the blessing of meeting one another this past Fall at a conference. We did hit it off! Those qualities came shining through even more.

Why am I telling you this, you may be wondering? Well my friend Lara wrote a book! Yep, a real, live book! I told you, she’s the real deal. And let me tell you, it’s good. The kind of good that makes you want to soak in every word and implant it into your brain and heart forever.

“He changed me. He transformed my mind. He transformed my life.” Lara Williams

Lara shares an intimate slice of her life with us and explains how God used it for His glory in transforming her life and marriage. Like Lara, this book is honest, real, vulnerable and packed full of Truth. Truth that will sock you in the stomach and take your breath away, but it’s just so good.

“He may call us to die to self, but it’s only because God’s blessings so far outweigh our self-agenda.” Lara Williams

I highly recommend this book to anyone. Married or single. Divorced, happily married or struggling to see your way through your marriage, this book is for you. It’s not just a marriage book but a book about facing any difficult situation and focusing on how God can use it to transform YOU. It’s a message of hope and a reminder that above all else God is still God…no matter what.

“True beauty arises from a quiet spirit that finds rest in the character and promises of God.” Lara Williams

 

You can get a copy of To Walk or Stay, by Lara Williams on AmazonChristianbook, and Barnes & Noble. It’s available in kindle or in paperback.

Check out this short video and hear Lara herself!

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Click on the link: To Walk or Stay Promo Video from Lara Williams on Vimeo.

One step.

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Last week I introduced a dream of mine in this post about how I would like to start a fitness group of some sort where I can encourage moms to set an exercise goal of and motivate them along way until they reach achievement. I was blown away by the kind words of encouragement and excitetment I received through your comments and some texts (thanks Dad!). You all sure do know how to make a girl feel good! Thank you! I am very excited to see what will come out of me actually saying my dream aloud. Still a bit nervous yes but that keeps me humbled and reminds me that this dream is from God and not my own. I know anything that will come out of it will be His doing and me following in obedience. So let’s GO!

As I also mentioned I am not alone in this whole dreaming big thing. I have 99 new friends that are doing the same thing through Holley Gerth’s God-sized Dream Team. This week’s assignment is to share one step we took towards our dream. I am thrilled to share I have an exciting opportunity that pretty much fell into my lap after sharing my dream last week. My friend and fellow God-sized dreamer, Stacey Thacker commented on my post and said she had an idea for me that she thinks would fit my dream. Well that she did! Along with many other amazing things Stacey has going on right now (like this amazing book you have to read which she co-authored) she happens to be the (in)courage group coordinator. (in)courage has developed community groups based on stage of life, interests and other connectors where you can build deep, meaningful friendship beyond comments on blog posts. For the first time they are starting a fitness community group and I was asked to co-lead the group! So yes, I can officially say I am an (in)courager! The session will begin February 12 and run through April 28. I will have a co-leader and we are working on exactly what this group will look like. But you can be assured that you will meet other women who, like you want to make fitness a priority. And you can be sure I will be SO excited to help you move one step closer in achieving your fitness goals. If you would like more information about joining this group or any of the (in)courage community groups go HERE.

There it is. I took the plunge to say aloud what I have been thinking for so long and once I did an opportunity gets plopped in my lap. Maybe this dreaming thing isn’t so bad after all! Did you take a step, even the tiniest one towards your God-sized dream? Tell me! I want to hear all about it!

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5 on friday.

1. Fall is here. Cooler weather. Sweatshirts. Warm blankets and LEAVES! We live in a forrest you could say with huge trees all around that dump and I mean dump piles and piles of leaves all over our yard. Hours upon hours will be spent raking these leaves in the weeks to come but for now we will just throw them up in the air!
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2. The sweetest thing has happened; the girls and my grandma have become pen pals. The girls love to make pictures and send people mail. Their favorite person to send mail to is Great Grandma and Big Pa. They send pictures covered in stickers that I know is lovingly displayed on their fridge. My grandma sends back a hand written note asking questions and telling them about her days. She often sends stickers back to them. Recently she sent Kaia an article from the local newspaper where my grandma was honored for her many years of community service. Kaia proudly and ever so carefully carries this with her in her purse. I have the best memories growing up with my grandparents. It melts my heart that the girls are developing their own relationships with them. These are good memories to have.

3. I’ve been wanting to make these triple chip butterscotch cookies I found on Pinterest. I’ve also been wanting to thank our firemen for their service to our community and teach the kids about random acts of kindness. Win. Win. Win. We made cookies and pictures one afternoon this week and shared them with our local firemen. The firefighters loved it! And so did the kids. And the cookies were amazing. You gotta try these!

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4. Looking for a simple, cute Fall craft? This week the girls and I made Fall trees by dipping wine corks into paint and dotting the trees up with bright Fall colors. It was fun and mellow. My kind of kid craft.

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5. This weekend we are celebrating the girls 5th birthday. We are going bowling! This is kind of funny because they have never been bowling and I’m not really sure if they know what bowling is. Their idea was to do mini golf (which they have never done either) but it’s supposed to be cold and I didn’t really want to monitor 10 kids with golf clubs running around. So 10 kids with big heavy objects and lots of sugar it is! But at least we will be warm and I KNOW we will have fun!

Happy weekend friends! Enjoy!

*** Would you like to join in 5 on friday with you own random tid bits of the weeks you had? I would love it! If so, let me know and I will send you the button I made that you can add to your post. Hopefully soon we can all link up! Wouldn’t that be fun?

 

 

OneVerse Project. Won’t you help?

Today I am so excited to share you an amazing story and opportunity that YOU can be a part of! My friends Katie and Lara wrote a book last year on how to have effective quiet times. I bought and it’s amazing! From the start they have committed to giving away a portion of their proceeds. They also set a crazy goal to go along with it! Guess what?!? They have almost reached their goal. Read Katie’ story below and see how you can help them cross the finish line!
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It has been a year since Lara Williams and I first launched Savoring Living Water: How to Have an Effective Quiet Time. I thought we might sell a hundred or so copies of our little e-book. Yet here we are—thousands of copies later—with the book in print and a leader’s guide right around the corner.

God has chosen to use our little e-book in a big way to help end Bible Poverty. We set a crazy big goal last year to bring 104 verses to the Vidunda people, through OneVerse, a Wycliff Bible Translators affiliate.

Today, we stand with only 16 verses left.

Sixteen!

To celebrate all the Lord has done, and to reach our goal near our one-year mark, we are going to give ALL PROFITS to OneVerse for every sale of the e-version sold today, and we would love for Y-O-U to be a part of the work God is doing in the lives of the Vidunda people!

Every PDF, Nook, and Kindle version sold on Thursday, October 4th will bring $5 to the Vidunda people.

If you already have a copy, will you consider gifting a copy, or donating directly to the Savoring Living Water OneVerse project. Any gift amount is welcome!

Thank you for helping us bring God’s Word to the nations!

A habit I don’t want to quit.

 

 

I was introduced to HelloMornings at the perfect time. I can’t really remember how the introduction went but I know it was through God so we’ll just call it perfect.

Two years ago I was in a rough place to be honest. Life changed in big ways for our family. We moved across country, changed job positions, left all our friends and a rather comfortable and happy life. Though it was hard, we were confident this was the next step for our family. This is the truth I tried with all my might to hold on to when my confidence in our decision and God’s leading weakened. I decided to join the HelloMornings Fall challenge. I was desperate for community, alone time with God and some encouragement. I found all three quickly within the first couple of weeks. God honored my commitment to meeting with him before the day started. He introduced me to women that I still talk with today and call some of my closest friends. Friends, who’ve I’ve never met, encouraged me, prayed with me and for me when I needed it most.

I am more than thankful for how HelloMornings has impacted my life, my family and others around me. God intersected my life with this amazing group of women at just the right time. In His time. Now it IS my morning routine. It’s a habit I don’t want to quit!

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Where in world…

are the Barelas?

Well that’s a great question considering I’ve left my blog kinda hanging these days. Well you see, it’s summer and I have 3 kiddos to entertain all day. And then we have family we get to visit, road trips to make, friends to celebrate the 4th with and more family that drove all the way across the country to stay with us for a whole week. All of this was great, wonderful and tiring and we are left with hearts full of thankfulness and love. In the midst of all that awesomeness (that’s my new word these days, don’t say I didn’t warn you) we’ve been swimming, playing baseball and basketball, doing some craftiness around the house which led to some re-decorating and more crafting. You know that cycle. There was a date night on bikes in there with some of our best friends, more fun times with new friends, and lots of quality family time. Bedtimes of gone out the window most nights and the sugar consumption has been high. The affects have not been pretty at times. Hanging. By. A. Thread. I tell you! But it’s summer and we only have 18 summers with our kids so why not?

So you see the blog has not been forgotten really, it was just put to the side for a bit to fully enjoy and embrace what is right in front me. Because I don’t want to miss it! Summer is running away from us people. We have 4 weeks left. I love capturing how life is happening around me into words. What I’m learning, what I’m doing and all the little things in between. But I haven’t figured out how to make blogging fit nicely into the schedule where everyone is happy. It’s a balancing act that has yet to be figured out. The allusion of perfect balance in all areas of life is just that…an allusion. For me, I gotta go with my gut and write when my heart and schedule are open. It’s tricky yes. But when it works, it’s pure awesomeness.

Told ya I liked that word:)

Happy Monday friends!

 

 

 

 

5 on friday.

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1. First! Our girls aged ATLEAST 5 years this week. And it all happened in a matter of minutes on one day. The day they got their hair cut. This has been a topic of discussion for awhile now. We even tried one time and left in tears and screams (them not me). It was a for sure no go that day. But soon they started talking about it again, then their friend got hers’ cut. The last straw has been the painful attempts of trying to comb “pool hair” out almost everyday. It was a battle of the wills between them and me and most times they won.  The result has been a matted dreadlock mess. Thankful for perfect timing, I have a new friend that is an amazing hairdresser. The girls love her and the appointment went super smooth. Ahhhh. Sigh. Of. Relief. Although I did get a lump in my throat when I looked at the mounds of hair on the floor! I could have made a blanket! Not to mention my babies now look 10 years old.

2. This week I linked up with an amazing group of writers at Write It, Girl! I’ve joined them before and each time I am so encouraged by the comments I receive by other writers and by reading so many others good blogs! If you get a chance you should stop by. Read some great posts and comment if you’d like. I know they would appreciate your thoughts and words.
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3. This week I found a little time and a little inspiration to get crafty. I completed this project I saw in pinterest forever ago. I’m planning on re-doing our living room. Time for change. Never really loved it in the first place. I’m hoping this little guy will find a place somewhere in our living room. I just painted a square board grey and then cut out leaves from scraps of fabric and modge podged those puppies right on. Easy peasey.
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4. Next I want to make these for our kitchen. The towels we use now are seriously embarrassing. So stinky, stained and ugly. But when you clean up 189 spills a day that’s what you get. So I hesitate to get or make new ones when that is my reality. Still, I want something pretty. I’m thinking something like these would look lovely. And I just won’t let anyone touch them!

5. Next the kids and I are heading to my parents house for a week. I’m looking forward to help from the grandparents, lot of cousins time for the kids, a local festival that I’ve gone to forever, a visit to my grandparents cottage in the PA mountains and hanging out with lots of friends and family. Oh! I can’t wait!!!

Happy weekend friends!

sometimes you just have to…

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It was barely above 70 and the wind was blowing. But the kids were a little crazy, snippy at each other and loud. Louder than normal I should say. It was not ideal swimming weather in my opinion but we needed a change of activities rather quickly to redirect the momentum in the house. Swimming it is! We all were freezing, we didn’t last long BUT it worked. We did have some fun at the pool and when we came home the kids were ready to chill out a bit. The moods were much better and there was peace in the house.

I’ve found that when things get a little hairy and we are spiraling out of control sometimes I just need to do something out of the box to get us back on track.
Even if it means freezing in the pool water…

Am I writer?

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I have a blog. So does that make me a writer?

I have asked myself this question from time to time. Other blogs I have read say so, but it is hard for me to say yes confidently. I’m not sure why. Maybe because I am not that confident in my writing. My blog is really just me opening my heart a little bit. It’s a place where I share our little piece of the world.

But does that make me a writer?

Well I don’t know. But I am hoping to explore this question and grow in my writing through a series that started yesterday called 31 Days to Become a Better Writer. It is hosted by Allume.

So whether you have a blog or not. Whether you consider yourself a writer or not. Or still trying to figure it out like me. Won’t you join me in following along with this series? I think we might learn a thing or two!