I probably should have done this a long time ago but I don’t like to “should” myself so I wont say that:) What I started doing recently is separating the girls for their rest/nap times. Formerly naps were not happening at all and in the process of “resting” they were destroying their room and turning into wild, crazy and overtired girls. Day after day you can only imagine what this turned into…not good. So a couple weeks ago I put one in one room and another in another room. They only fought me on the first day. Now each day they ask me “Are we separated today?” The answer is yes! and they go off to their respective rooms. The result is: naps are occasionally happening and the girls get a break from one another which I think they need. It’s important to develop their own personalities and imaginations, dislikes and likes. I love the special bond they have. To watch and listen to them play together is such a joy. But it’s always good to have a break from your best friend…even when it’s your twin sister.